Time Required: Lots
Here's How:
Take a deep breath and say these words, "No, I don't want to have sex".
If the question arises while you are kissing or fooling around, stop what you are doing and change the tone of the moment. Emphasize your words with actions.
Be prepared for questions and/or objections. Stay true to yourself and your stated feelings.
Calmly explain why you choose abstinence. List all of your reasons be they religious, moral, personal or situational (or any combination of these).
If you have had sex before don't let the other preson use this to bully you into it now, just because you have done it before doesn't mean you have to do it everytime you are asked.
Tell the
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