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Sir/ Madam my name is Clarence. M leaving in Bangalore, I got married at St. PATRICK'S CHURCH on 12'th May (arranged marriage) We where very happily living and we go a baby, but there were small miss understanding for her, like comparing my sister because they stayed in our ground floor separately after our marriage, even then fine I used to manage, she suddenly decided to go to work but me and my parents did not agree for that, I informed her mother that she is asking that she wants to go to work her mother told send her to my house I'll talk to her. and even she went to her home but there was no phone call from them and I called her but she refused me and I waited for 4-6 days and I went to her house to bring her back to our house but even then they refused to come, I asked her mother why are u still keeping her in your house send her back but her mother told that she will die if we force her to go & also her mother asked me what is the problem if she goes to work but I told her that the child is very small (3years) and it is not so necessary for her to work, but the argument went on and they where very Steuben.so I came back to my house, my parents asked me where is your wife & baby but I did not tell them any thing, I just told them she want to stay there 2 more days & kept quite. But next day morning my mother asked me that u r very dull tell me what happened & she forced me I told every thing that happened and the next day my uncle came to our house he asked me again what happened I told every thing, & again the second time me & uncle went but again the same thing happened but my uncle forced her to come back home but they started telling that she will die if we force to go home & again the argument went on but at last she agreed to come back, she came after 1 or 2 days & she was very disturbed & muddy we taught this will get cleared but the next day after she came back from her home on14'th May, I came home after work at 10.00pm she did not talk to me, my mother told her don't be so stuben go & serve food to your husband she was silent with no response & my mom repeated again & again but she was silent my mom started shouting that u are very Steuben... & went on & she suddenly started shouting at my mom I got angry & shouted at her & i gave her one slap but that was wrong & also it was the first time after marriage, but she started shouting loudly it was 11.00pm so my mom closed her mouth tightly telling not to scream, by that time my father & sister came asking what happened & he took us out of the room, she suddenly closed the room door with the baby, but we where out of the room, we waited for 5 min & then knocked the door telling her to open the door but she did not we got afraid that she may attempt to suicide because she always used to tell this, & there was also chair sound so we started braking the door but we could not, by the time she called her parents saying that every one in the house are hitting me so please come soon, by that time she was packing all her belongings & jeweler’s even they came at 12.00-12.30 midnight they didn't ask us any thing are what happened but they took her & baby home. But again I called her many times, messaged her but no reply again after 2 weeks I went to meet her & baby but she was not willing to talk to me, but they started telling that I am not a good husband. & I came back, & again after 1 week I called her father telling that tell her to come out some where so that we can discuss that what is the problem & we will try to solve it if any but even then no response, again after 1 1/2 month's again we went to talk to them but there was no response she told that she doesn't want me & live with me, finally telling me get out of the house...
And again I went to her house thinking that she might have changed her mind and I also told her that you go to work I and my parents have agreed but now again a new problem with her it is that my sister as to live the house they stay separately at ground floor and we at 1'st floor there is no problem with them how can I send them out even my parents wont agree for this... But everyone from our dad's side and my mom's side have gone to there house and talked to her and her parents but no use. But I want my wife & baby back in a good way.
And also I told her that we will make a separate house and stay happily but she is not ready for that also, and now she tells that she has no guaranty on me, now tell me sir that what I have to do!
If we men’s had left the wife and goon out it’s an offense, but what if the girl lives the house and go out, then what we have to do? And what we have to think?
This is my problem, tell me what to do I'm still waiting for her & they have put the baby in the school, saying that I know how to bring up my baby.
Her father is working at Bangalore HIGH CORT & her mother is a government school teacher. Now please solve this problem, please see that my problem should not be published to the public, and sir don't consider this as a complaint, but try to call our both the family's to your place, convince and clear the problem.
My contact No.9341236300.
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