I am 45 and I've been a member on and off of Plenty of Fish for several years now. When I get fed up with not finding or meeting quality men, I take a break for awhile before I go back on it. It IS free to join, and you can contact other users, but to be a 'gold' member they require you to pay a membership fee in order to 'spotlight' your profile and show others that you are a serious member.
I met 2 different guys, one in his 30's, the other in his 40's like me this past summer. Both men pretty much were looking to have sex, as they found me attractive. While I initially liked both of them, the one guy didn't have a lot of depth to him, and I ended up having to pay for things like gas for his truck, JUST so him and I could see each other again! Plus a free meal. He didn't say thank you. :(The other man didn't drive because he had an impaired charge and lost his license. These are the types of guys you will find on pof. And the site I find has plenty of LOSERS. Another guy I met last winter I also had to give gas money to, and I told him he had to pay me back. When he refused to answer my messages on pof, I was forced to go to his house, where he lived with his mom and dad, and demanded my money back!! He wasn't home, but his dad 'saw' me outside (I didn't know who he was, so didn't approach him) and called me, and later the next day came by with the $40.
Another guy who was more psycho, had something 'off' about him I didn't like, by the text messages I was getting from him 'I just want to be your man! ' was German, and when I cancelled meeting him one weekend, the next day he sent me nasty, very angry, and crude and ignorant text messages!
These are not good, quality men, and they all tend to have issues like being cheap or not having money, and most profile pics show some pretty unattractive men, so it's obvious why they are still single. Don't even bother joining!!!
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